Child
marriages are still a reality in Kerala(though the percentage is very small). With a literacy over 96% in Kerala, its surprising how such incidences happen?
Many
argue that the only cause for child marriage is dowry. If dowry is the reason, it
must affect all communities and religions equally. However, this custom is popular
only among a few. For instance, child marriages are still prominent among Adivasis and few other groups.
Majority
of the people has moved forward with time, discarding or discontinuing ancient
customs. For example Sathi (where a widow should also end life if her husband passes away)
was in practice till nineteenth century in certain parts of India. But that society discontinued the practice. Hat’s off to Shri Rajaram Mohan Roy for his efforts to end this dark age custom.
So the
entire issue of Child marriages may be brought down two possible reasons:
- Lack of Social Reformation:
Few still live in bullock cart age. We know, most pure is the flowing water, not the stagnant. Hence,
backward peoples must be properly educated and inspired to think forward.
- Over population: A
parent, who has the annual income and ability to raise only one child, should never have
5 or 6 children. Only in such cases, with too many members in the family, the dowry can be a villain. For a
single girl child family, government of India is providing lot of free grants for the girl child's
education. And after the college education, the girl could be married off easily with the money family has saved over these years.
Over population is a burden not only to the family but also for every one else in the society. Over population is just like a crowded bus. Suppose only 40 can mount a bus as per the bus maximum capacity, it will be disaster if 100 people try to mount. With 100 people its possible that the bus may break down in the middle of the road, thus affecting not only the passengers inside the bus but also the travelers in other vehicles as the public road gets blocked. Over population retards the growth and development of the state.
Some people propagate children are God given gift and child births need not be controlled. This statement is partially correct, in that
children are God given gift. But controlling sex or safe sex that almost naturally
controls child birth cannot be seen as a sin. Moreover it may argued that, at the time of natural illness artificial medical treatments are taken for its cure. Even blood and
parts of human body is artificially transplanted to treat the disease. Hence, if artificial medical treatments can be taken, adoption of birth control measures is not at all against the will
of God or a sin.
Advantages seen by the advocates of child marriages
Children can be easily tamed and made to obey anything stupid. They can be made to believe anything. The supporters of child marriages possibly have hidden intentions. Real Reasons behind forced child marriages are short listed below.
1. A female, if educated will not sallow all instructions. She will start thinking(\use brains) and may start questioning as well. All these possibilities can be completely ruled off if girls are deprived of higher education.
2. A girl married at the age of 15, can bear children upto the age of 45. On contrary, an educated girl will oppose about the idea of having 10-12 kids. An educated girl will definitely say, let us follow governments directions and a small family is the happier family.
3. By keeping the girls away from the public education systems, the girl will never learn the truth, the opportunities outside and fall in love with the beautiful world outside.
Conclusion
Child marriages is a cover to deprive education to girls. Allegations on dowry as the only reason for child marriages is absurd. As because, if dowry is the real reason, the birth rates can be controlled if the family can not afford financial burdens. Government of India is encouraging birth control, by creating public awareness through constant advertisements and even provides free birth control treatments. Still, why some people choose to turn their backs to government machinery?.
By denying education to women the following is easy,
- women will always remain dependent and submissive to man
- women will always live by the wishes of man, to the extent of allowing him to have several wives
Clearly, no educated girl will submit to any of the above. Child marriages clearly has no other reasons.